Do your kids pack for themselves?

Discussion in 'Camping with Kids/Pets' started by jasba, Apr 22, 2016.

  1. upstate family

    upstate family New Member

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    I have a 7 year old and 11 year old. They pack and then I check to make sure they have everything. The trip we took this week they did a great job. Of course my 7 year old didn't match everyday, but she has her own sense of style and I just go with it. The day she had diagonal multi-color striped skort and a horizontal red striped shirt was interesting, but it's one of her favorite outfits. Pictures will make for interesting conversations when she gets older.
     
  2. sanrico

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    I have a 5-year-old boy. He does not pack for himself. We have a system in place and a checklist and we fly through it. I just feel like there is so much to pack and forget, I don't want to leave it to chance.

    However, I certain understand the good lessons that can be learned! I'm going to talk to my wife about this and see if we can implement a system for him. This is a good idea.
     
  3. ny_rocking_chairs

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    Yep, sons are 7 and 9 (8 and 10 at the end of August, yikes), and they have been packing for themselves for a couple years. We still go over what they packed and need to remind them of certain items from time to time.
    We switched to the sterilite drawers this past camping trip and DS #1 even insisted on using that to pack for his annual trip to his grandparents cabin too [LOL]
     
  4. 4my2girls

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    I tell my kids we need 5 day time outfits and 3 pjs. For cold or warm weather. And so many socks and panties.. when they are 7 and under I sit with them as they layout their outfits and we count together. You need a warm jacket and cooler jacket or swimsuit... now mine are 9 and 11 and I send them off only with a verbal list 5 day outfits 3 pj's and 6 socks.. they bring to trailer.. I'll glance at what they packed and I will add more things they missed and then while on the trip when they realize they are missing things. I repeat didn't I ask for 5 day outfits! That's why your short you only packed 3.. so they get that moment of wow I should have packed better cause now I am miserable.. then I show them the extra stuff I have for them.. and tell them to pack better next time. My 9 year old hates not to have what's needed and she is a real good packer now. Even works when we take a trip to see family or grandma. My kids have packed their own stuff since 3 years old. It helps them make choices I never pick their outfits. Long as it weather appropriate other wise I retell them not a summer shirt but a winter. And don't forget layers
     
  5. Orchid

    Orchid Sharp Shootin' Grandma

    My husband still doesn't pack for himself. [LOL]
     
  6. JPBar

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    My 5 year old daughter packs her things, she takes enough cloths for the time we are going to be gone same with me. Now the DW on the other hand, packs enough (her stuff) for 10 days for a 5 day trip, drives me crazy.
     
  7. CamperChrissy

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    My 12 and 8 year olds get a list and an empty large Sterilite drawer and pack it themselves. I pack for the 4 year old and the hubby! Each kid also gets a small tote bag to pack with toys. So far so good!
     
  8. 3hooligans

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    We have carried this over into our skiing trips this year, the 9 year old still needs to have his bag double checked, but the 11 and 13yo do really well, i write a list and they pack it, the added part with the ski trips is that they also need to make sure thier ski bag is all set. All five get double checked by the wife and or I otherwise it could ruin the trip with a missing helmet or ski jacket.
    I also have to double check the wife if she coming off a tough week of night shifts ;)
     
  9. scubacamper

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    We just did our first trip of the year (4 nights) and each of the DD's (7 & 9) have a small travel bag on wheels that they initially pack themselves with a little guidance from the DW. Packing the PUP is ME, Menu and Food is the DW while the DD's pack their bags and toys. We've done this so many times that the girls know the basics and my DW does a final check before I toss them into the minivan. The more you camp and the older they get the better they'll get at it.
     
  10. fourhallatts

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    My boys (16 and 22) always got their own clothes ready for a trip. I would tell them how many days they needed and they would get it ready. Underwear and socks folded inside pants/shorts, inside a shirt. If we were only going on a weekend trip we would only take one suitcase (it expands) for longer trips they packed their own bags. They also had to pack their own bathroom bags, ie. toothbrush, comb/brush, deodorant, shower puff. I would pack the toothpaste, body soap, shampoo and conditioner. Once the essentials were packed they could add extras (if it didn't fit it didn't need to come!). They also would pack a small electronics bag (Gameboy and later tablet). They are both champion packers now that they are older.
     
  11. inthedirt

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    My wife is not a big camper, so to make it easier on her nerves and anxiety, I said all she needed was to pack her clothes and toiletries. I'd take care of everything else (including the grocery shopping and cooking). That was the only way I could get her to come along because she HATES the prep and DESPISES the cleanup. This was about 5yrs ago and its been great ever since. But, that meant that I didn't always have time to check the kids bags. At some point, I don't remember when, I finally had to tell the kids that if they didn't put it in the truck, I wasn't going to be responsible for making sure they had clean socks/underwear, their favorite toys, or whatever. They got the point when someone didn't pack their pillow and I didn't give a hoot. Their fault, not mine. I gave plenty of warning. IIRC, my youngest was maybe 7 or 8 at the time. Plenty old enough to learn responsibility. If its important to them, they won't forget.
     

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