I know this question has been asked before....I have read many threads, but I still have questions. We own a 2008 Honda Pilot 4WD. The towing capacity states 3500 for trailers and 4500 for boats. Our trailer is a 2010 Coleman bayside. The dry weight is #2650. The GVWR is 3500. Can the 4500 towing capacity rating work for a pop up trailer since it is low profile or is it truly only for boats? Why or why not? We have been trying to get adequate answers from dealership about adding the tow pkg. dealer says all we really need is trans cooler and ps cooler is not necessary? Is that what you have found? We live in CO. Is the 4500 why limit for trailer, all gear and passengers? Does the weight of our trailer sound safe to pull as long as we have a trans cooler? We DO also have a trailer brake and anti sway bar. 4 people in fam plus dog! Just trying to understand and be sure we have what we need. We have struggled to get answers from dealerships. Thx for your help!